Solitude in Solidarity

Life is mysterious indeed, for how to know great companionship than through true solitude. 

Intimacy is short of a craving. It is human nature and a personality-driven desire longing for touch, camaraderie and mutually inclusive engagements. Yet there is a responsibility and consequence to companionship, one many may take for granted. How can one enter a new relationship or revitalize an existing relationship with emotional baggage from times past? Here is where solitude becomes a vital key in recovery. Man at times, refuses to acknowledge his past mistakes while moving impulsively on to his next impending error. There should be a committed time of relaxation, inner-peace and contemplation to allow for reflection. This reflective period will allow you the time to regain your own personal thoughts and perspectives while realigning your behavioral patterns to return to a state of balance. Lack of solitude may be contrary to maintaining and sustaining long term commitments if we refuse a chance to recommit ourselves back to ourselves. Back to our personal goals, spiritual task, daily responsibilities and total well-being. Without a recovery period from past wounds how can one asses what truly went wrong or where we miscalculated? Surely every failure can not be at the hand nor blame of others ALL the time. Our arrogance and denial are not so heavy that we can see nor admit to no weaknesses or faults? In every battle there are two opponents with two objectives, goals and points of view, acceptance of our part helps to douse the fire that strengthens the flames that separate us. For you can not be assured that your way is always the correct way at any and every given moment. 

Solitude, the period, state or situation of being alone, is the time where we can no longer run from ourselves. Where we face our inner demons and resolve to come to terms with them. We vow to no longer allow them to haunt nor control our thoughts, speech, emotions and our fragile mind. We as a collective are influenced by so many outside distractions it is difficult to know our true thoughts and feelings, if we have any at all. Some of us are not feeling anything any longer as we become numb to human plight and destruction. Desensitized by what we see, what we know as unreal, what we deem as agendas or propaganda that influences the true reality of ALL THINGS! Solitude clears the mind, wipes the slate clear and allows us to focus on what is priority. Be grateful for solitude that period where the mind sits quiet ready to receive impressions from your higher self. This is how we discern our next move and figure out a new life path. This can not be created out of old scars unhealed and still swore,  unless the old is rectified and delved into with cleansing, clarity, acceptance and with a new agenda..

Solitude is where the work is to be done, it is how the work begins and it is where the past is reconciled. So Stop, reflect, recover and heal in order to begin the path anew!